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Let’s Play

Discovering one’s life purpose sometimes involves a lot of playing around.  One of the wonderful qualities my parents had was that they encouraged a wide range of playing for their children.  When I said I wanted to be a doctor at age 6, they gave me a “play the...
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Male Spirituality V: Fathers’ Day…for All Fathers?

The vast majority of fathers in our country are excellent parents.  Yet stereotypes about men and assumptions about their maleness are far too prejudicial in a number of areas regarding fathers and their children.  Steven Van Valkenburg and Trudy Scheutt write on...
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Space: The Final Frontier

The other day I went up to my friend Mark’s home.  He and his roommate rent the second and attic floors of a nice early 20th century home in Boston.  He’d let things go for a while and asked me to help him reorganize his space.  It was not terribly difficult...
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Real Relationship: Not for Wimps!

I remember a time when the word “relationship” referred to a variety of connections a person might have with people, animals, objects and even institutions.  It was a generic term.   In the seventies, however, the word took on a very limited cast.  It was used...
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What Women Want in Men

When I was preparing couples for marriage I often got the feeling they “clicked” as a couple.   Unless I observed a major issue of immaturity that needed to be addressed, I usually gave them the benefit of doubt if they seemed mismatched in some way.  After all,...