Why Sex is So Important to Men

Why Sex is So Important to Men

My last post dealt with Sex: Use and Misuse.  Today I want you to reflect on intimacy and sex and why sex is so important for many men.  It’s because a lot of men are uncomfortable with intentional emotional intimacy and find sex to be a shortcut for them. A funny...
Why Sex is So Important to Men

Sex: Use and Misuse

The primary purpose of sex from a biological perspective is, of course, procreation.   But there are many more purposes for human sexuality.  We use sex to relieve stress and tension.  Sex is also a great healer, sharing love and affection, the warmth and security of...
Why Sex is So Important to Men

Work and Vocation

I love to watch TV chefs.  One personality that brightens the day is Michael Symon, one of the hosts of The Chew.  He was recently on vacation in Puglia, Italy 15 other friends and family.  They rented a farm house and spent a couple of weeks relaxing and eating. ...
Why Sex is So Important to Men

Playing Games

Many of us can’t help but play games with ourselves and with each other.  I don’t mean recreational sports or the harmless give and take in romance.  I’m thinking of the mental and verbal games we use to protect ourselves or to get our own way personal relationships...
Why Sex is So Important to Men

Many Variations

As I work with men, I am constantly honored by their trust in me, as well as by their courageous life stories.  Every one of them is like a bright facet, shining a new perspective on the vast variety of manhood. I met another courageous man this weekend.  Tim worked...