Finding True Happiness

Finding True Happiness

Confession: I’ve been on a search all my life for true happiness.  Haven’t we all?  As a child happiness came almost automatically.  Our experiences were fresh and new.  However we performed academically, school opened up new worlds of possibility for happiness.  How...
Finding True Happiness

Guilty as Charged!

I’ve managed to rid myself of a lot of false guilt, rooted in lousy feelings and self-defeat.  Guilt for me is rather my knowing that I’ve done something I should not do, that violates my own values and ethics.  But guilt comes in a lot of other forms.  It can feel...
What Men Want in Women

What Men Want in Women

The masculine and the feminine: both are present in each of us.  Both create a tension that challenges personal relationships and professional alliances.  In my previous post I wrote about what women want from their men.  I will now address the other side of the coin....
Finding True Happiness

A Plea to Men

What is your deepest desire?  If there were no limits at all placed on achieving what you really want in your life, what would it be?  Sensing that we do not deserve or cannot achieve our deepest desires is self-defeating.  We were not meant to dream in vain.  The...
Finding True Happiness

Mundane Creativity

Susan and I have been friends since 1996 when I first went to her studio for art lessons.  This week she’s turned 65 and is younger than ever.  She’s constantly recreating herself.  Whenever Susan gets feeling low, she either goes out for a brisk run, or, in the...