Neglect: The Silent Killer of the Soul

Neglect: The Silent Killer of the Soul

Three kinds of neglect that affect our spiritual lives and cause tremendous wounding: emotional neglect, physical neglect, and neglect in spiritual communities. Regarding emotional neglect, we are fortunate to have the work of Dr. Jonice Webb available to us in her...
Neglect: The Silent Killer of the Soul

Healing Our Spiritual Pasts

Today I want to begin a conversation about past experiences that have wounded us.  Specifically, I am focusing on experiences associated with spiritual or church organizations. We usually belong to a religion or congregation for some great reasons.  We’re looking for...
Neglect: The Silent Killer of the Soul

Emotional Neglect

I just finished one of the best books I’ve ever read: Running on Empty: Overcome Your Childhood Emotional Neglect by Jonice Webb, PhD with Christine Musello, PsyD. (2014, Morgan James Publishing, NY).  Dr. Webb has opened my eyes to a whole, new way of looking at...
Neglect: The Silent Killer of the Soul

Broken Beyond Repair?

The other day I went for my walk.  I met up with a friend I’ll call Tom.  Tom is a sweet, generous, intelligent, and good-natured guy who doesn’t seem to believe it.  Now in mid-life he’s been wracked with pain from injuries and unable to work.  Tom is also a prisoner...
Neglect: The Silent Killer of the Soul

That Thing I Do

I’ve noticed for many years a dichotomy in the way in which I communicate.  Whenever I’m in front of people, face to face, I’m totally authentic, accessible, present, aware, engaging, passionate, and transcendent.  I found this to be true when I preached off-the-cuff...