Four Keys to Motivation

Is there some change you wish to make but you just can’t get motivated?  Have you lost the motivation you used have in your career, hobbies, relationships, personal health?  Are you frustrated that motivation doesn’t simply “appear” when you need it most? One of the...

The Joy of Blaming

Blaming can feel so good…at first! It is a “gotcha” moment – a spontaneous and fleeting expression of aggression. Blaming is a chance to deflect attention away from you. After an event like a divorce, the loss of a job, or the death of a loved one to whom you devoted...

Blame vs. Responsibility

The recent comments of a political candidate that 47% of the American population has become dependent on government assistance and is content with their situation sounds to me a lot like assigning blame.  He seems to be saying that somehow our country is “less than”...

Responsibility and Blame

A therapist friend mentioned to me that an awful lot of his male clients have a hard time taking responsibility for their words and actions that often lead to relationship breakdowns.  The clueless men involved just seem to walk away from situations and people who...