by Michael Parise | Jul 22, 2016
I just saw the film, “Spotlight” on Netflix. I had avoided it in the theater because I was afraid I’d lose it, emotionally. It’s a good thing, because I did. I wailed long, hard, and loud at the end of the film when the Boston Globe...
by Michael Parise | Jul 20, 2016
There a lot “out there” that’s driving many of us crazy. I won’t go through the list; you know what I’m talking about. It’s whatever happens to be overwhelming your nervous system in this moment. Yet there’s nothing new in this overwhelming existence of ours. ...
by Michael Parise | Jul 9, 2016
Okay, so I’m suggesting we become a bit more selfish. Based on my previous blog, Being a Doormat, I’m tired of allowing myself to come a distant second. Taking care of myself first has changed my entire perspective on life. Before I would squeeze in my needs here...
by Michael Parise | Jul 1, 2016
I’ve encountered lots of doormats in my lifetime. Most said “Welcome” as I scraped my dirty shoes before entering. Doormats have served for millennia as the means to keep the outside grime where it belongs. They serve a great purpose as long as they’re in front of...
by Michael Parise | Jun 17, 2016
I feel I’m in a unique position to address the whole “Catholic Guilt” phenomenon, which burdens a lot of people. It’s really less about guilt (having actually done something wrong) and more about shame (feeling defective for being ourselves). The largest group of...
by Michael Parise | Jun 5, 2016
I don’t know what’s happened to me. I used to be so disciplined. At least that was the image I had of myself. I got up early, ate, brushed and flossed, prioritized by daily work and got it all done, had supper, did homework, watched TV and went to bed no later than...