Life or Career?

Life or Career?

Do you want a life or a career?  How does your career define you?  Or is it a subset of your life?  These can be uncomfortable questions we avoid because they hit ask us to question deeply our identity as persons.  As a long-time member of the ordained clergy I used...
Life or Career?

It’s not about you. Really.

Internal saboteurs keep showing up in his head, telling him that self promotion is not a good thing. He recently visited his older sister after a long hiatus and saw a repeat of some troubling behavior on her part.  Growing up she had been a strong influence in his...
Life or Career?

Are You an HSP?

 Are you are easily overwhelmed by stimuli, get stressed by loud noises and strong smells, are extremely perceptive, have a rich and often intense internal life, become depleted when it’s time for food and nutrition, and need plenty of quiet and down time to maintain...
Life or Career?

Fear of Fear

My Aunt Virginia, whom I remember with great fondness, had agoraphobia, the fear of public places.  It caused her to isolate in her apartment and I’m sure led to my uncle divorcing her.  She was a sweet, wonderful woman paralyzed by fear.  There are many fears and...
Life or Career?

“Family Man”

I find it fascinating to hear how often our candidates for national office are being called “family men.”  What is a “family man” and how does that impart a higher character or make one a better public servant?  I think the term “family man” actually is rather...