The Joy of Blaming

Blaming can feel so good…at first! It is a “gotcha” moment – a spontaneous and fleeting expression of aggression. Blaming is a chance to deflect attention away from you. After an event like a divorce, the loss of a job, or the death of a loved one to whom you devoted...

Connecting Spiritually: Intellect

Most of us connect to our spirituality through our emotions (see previous posting).   A second way we connect is cognitively or intellectually.  For many this hearkens back to “Sunday School” days and the drilling of questions and answers.  Not necessarily a favorite...